Divorced Christians-Moving Beyond the Pain

Restoring meaningpurpose and joy, when your world has been ripped apart.

Moving forward with new confidence, resilience and hope for the future.

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Divorce will cause you to question everything.

You built a life together: a home, family, friends, dreams and hopes for the future.  But something went horribly wrong and now you find yourself alone.

Not only have you lost your spouse, but maybe also your home, family, friends, pets, security, predictability, finances, etc. 

You know your kids have experienced pain and loss too which adds to your feelings of guilt and shame.

You've grown weary of other Christians offering unhelpful advice, and reminding you that God hates divorce.

You start to question everything. Your identity? Your place in the world? Your relationships with God and others? Your purpose? Wondering if life will ever be good again?

You feel lost, broken and alone.

Trying to be happy doesn't work, only serving to remind you that you are not.

Now imagine you had a clear process for finding new meaning and purpose and joy, while increasing your mental, emotional and spiritual wellness.

What if you had more clarity about who you are now, where you belong, and God's purpose for your life? 

What if you had the confidence to stand up and be you, the awesome you that God created you to be?

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Just wanted to give a very big thank you … for helping me obtain my first goals and move forward in life. It will always be greatly appreciated


That was a great presentation! … homework package is "golden". Lots of very powerful and helpful stuff…’Meaning is the foundation for resilience. Resilience is the ability to keep moving onward toward a goal even in the face of hardship and suffering.’

Hello, I'm Becky...

I'm the founder and coach at Floodgate Coaching.  We help Christians move forward with a greater understanding of God's purpose in their lives after divorce, while developing a strong foundation of resilience and improving mental, emotional and spiritual health.

If you wake up each morning, questioning your value, your worth, or your purpose, if you feel lost and alone and need a new direction, then you are not alone.

Over the last 20 years, I have worked with many clients, who have felt the very same way.

Being a divorced Christian myself I know how hard it can be to pick up the shattered pieces and find a way forward. 

Divorce can cause poor mental, emotional, spiritual and even physical health, increased stress, lower coping, less life satisfaction, and higher mortality rates.

As Christians, we know that Christ is the Rock on which we build our lives, but as anyone who understands construction can tell you, a strong house still needs a foundation even when it is built on a rock.  

If you want to learn how to build a strong foundation that is rooted in faith, I'd like to offer you a 40-minute Free Strategy Session, where we dive into what is getting in the way of you moving forward, and develop a plan that truly works for you. 

This personal offer won't be available very long as my calendar fills up. --Schedule Now.

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A meaningful life is a resilient life

Storms in life will come. That is a fact.  There will be hard days, There will be suffering.  A life built on a firm foundation can stand through the storms with hope and resilience.

"This is the core of the human spirit...If we can find something to live for--if we can find some meaning to put at the centre of our lives--even the worst kind of suffering becomes bearable" --Victor Frankl

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